"Strictness is also a kind of love" I made friends with my parents PPT courseware

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"Strictness is also a kind of love" I made friends with my parents PPT courseware

Voices from peers

1. Xiao Ming said: My father likes to listen to Peking Opera, and I like to listen to pop songs. I love reading comics, but he often says that I am not doing my job properly.

2. Li Bing said: My mother always said that if I didn’t study hard, I wouldn’t even be able to plow the fields when I got home. When I heard this, I felt very disgusted. My ears are calloused.

3. Some people also said: I once lied and skipped class to play games. Now my mother asks me hundreds of times when I say I want to go out. She even limits my time when I come back. She doesn’t trust me at all.

4. After I entered middle school, I didn’t talk much to my parents.

5. My parents are very stubborn and don’t listen to my opinions at all.

6. My parents don’t understand me. Whether I make friends, dress up, eat, or read extracurricular books, as long as it is my business, they will interfere. I have no freedom at all. "

There will be troubles when growing up

After reading the above comics and the opinions of peers,

Please think:

Why has the originally harmonious parent-child relationship now become incompatible?

Cause of trouble

From a student's perspective: When I was a child, I worshiped my parents and thought they were omnipotent; by adolescence, I had a rebellious mentality towards my parents, looked down on them, and challenged my parents' authority.

From a parent's point of view: the care for their children has not changed, but the requirements have become stricter, and a few more words of admonishment are unavoidable. When children cannot listen, they feel that their parents are particularly nagging and wordy.

As a result, conflicts arose between us and our parents.

Strictness is also a kind of love

Our conflicts with our parents are often based on their high expectations and strict requirements for us. This kind of "strictness" that seems harsh to us reflects the love our parents have for us. We must understand and appreciate the painstaking efforts of our parents.

The emergence of reverse psychology

We often feel disgusted with our parents' ideas, discipline methods, and strict requirements, which is a rebellious mentality.

manifestations of rebellious psychology

If you want me to do this, I will do that

You say this is good, but I must say that is good.

Let me believe this, I must believe that

Analysis: Isn’t all reverse psychology wrong?

A dialectical approach to rebellious psychology: it cannot be generalized. Some rebellious behaviors are not the fault of children. Adults can also make mistakes.

(1) Backward concepts;

(2) Misunderstandings in family education:

A stick produces a filial son - the rough type

"Poor parents in the world"-the doting type

Children are at home - protective type

The tree grows naturally straight - the indulgent type

Hot and cold - emotional type

Indiscriminate rewards - materialistic type

Reverse psychology is harmful

The result of rebellious psychology is to punish yourself—either punishing yourself for your own mistakes, or punishing yourself for your parents' mistakes.

The result of reverse psychology is also harm to parents - either hurting parents with one's own mistakes, or hurting parents with parents' mistakes.

Family monologue

My child, I don’t know why, lately we often quarrel over small things. We had an argument again in the morning, and seeing you running out the door so angry made my heart twitch. My child, whenever I argue with you, my heart trembles slightly. I asked myself again and again: Is it time to make a fuss? Otherwise, is there any other way I can do it? Only when all efforts fail, son, will I choose to do this... Every time I quarrel, I feel very tired. The important thing is not that I am physically tired, but that I am mentally tired...

Child, after listening to your words, I told myself not to care about you anymore. In fact, I don’t know that you have grown up. However, the heart of a parent always prevents me from being so "chicken and unrestrained"... My child, caring about you and scolding you are all love, do you understand? --Mother

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