"Strictness is also a kind of love" I made friends with my parents PPT courseware 6

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"Strictness is also a kind of love" I made friends with my parents PPT courseware 6

Voices from peers

——"I'm already in junior high school, and my parents still treat me like a child. No matter what I do, they always worry about me and give me instructions over and over again. It really annoys me!"

——"My parents are very stubborn and don't listen to my opinions at all."

——"My parents don't understand me. No matter whether I make friends, dress up, eat, or read extracurricular books, as long as it is my business, they will interfere. I have no freedom at all."

Cause of trouble

From a student's perspective: When children are young, they are attached to and worship their parents, thinking that they are omnipotent; by adolescence, they desire independence and challenge their parents' authority.

From a parent's point of view: the care for their children has not changed, but the requirements have become stricter, and a few more words of admonishment are unavoidable. When children cannot listen, they feel that their parents are particularly nagging and wordy.

As a result, conflicts arose between us and our parents

Reverse psychology

The main manifestations of rebellious psychology:

If you ask me to do this, I must do that; if you say this is good, I must say that is good; if you ask me to believe this, I must believe that.

Why do we develop rebellious psychology?

The differences between the two generations often cause children to resent their parents' ideas, discipline methods, and strict requirements, which is called "rebellious psychology."

From the perspective of children, "rebellious psychology" often occurs because in order to maintain their own good image and self-esteem, they sometimes cannot control themselves. Their sense of independence is significantly stronger than when they were children, and they have interests and pursuits that are different from their parents.

Talk about it

Based on the conflicts you have experienced with your parents and your feelings at the time, tell me what harm your rebellious psychology has caused between you and your parents?

Analysis from the specific manifestations of rebellious psychology

Confront with a tough attitude and resist with a rough manner;

Ignore and treat parents coldly;

From being angry about a disagreement to feeling bad about the parents themselves, using extreme methods to deal with it will cause great harm, such as running away from home or even illegally deviating and hurting the parents.

How to overcome negative rebellious psychology?

① We must work hard to overcome negative rebellious psychology, and work hard to restrain ourselves when we are emotionally impulsive.

② Get close to your parents, be good at communicating with them, resolve conflicts, and dedicate love.

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When we are about to get angry, we might as well touch our navel with our hands. It was the place where we were connected to our mother and where our mother nourished us to keep us alive. We were once part of our parents.

"Strictness is also a kind of love" exercises

1. Be aware of everything (mark “√” if correct and “×” if incorrect)

1. The age gap between us and our parents is the fundamental reason for the generation gap. ( )

2. The essence of the generation gap is the multiple intergenerational differences reflected in the age difference. ( )

3. Our conflicts with our parents are often based on their high expectations and strict requirements for us. This kind of "strictness" that seems harsh to us reflects the love our parents have for us. ( )

4. Rebellious psychology and rebellious behavior must be analyzed in detail. We cannot say that they are all wrong. Some resistance is not unreasonable. ( )

5. In most cases, rebellious psychology leads to resistance to parents, which results in harming both parents and themselves. ( )

2. Stand out (there is only one answer that fits the meaning of the question)

1. There will be differences and estrangements between us and our parents on certain issues. The incorrect understanding of this is ()

A． Reverse psychology and rebellious behavior are both wrong.

B. The result of going against the grain is punishing yourself and hurting your parents.

C. Try to control yourself when you are emotionally impulsive.

D. We must understand and be considerate of our parents’ “strict” requirements.

2. Our conflicts with our parents are often based on our parents’ treatment of us ( )

A. Nagging B. Not understanding

C. High expectations and strict requirements D. Generation gap

3. The conflict between us and our parents is ( )

①It is caused by children

②It is often the result of our parents’ strict discipline on us.

③ Abnormal and unavoidable

④Misunderstanding between parents’ care and children’s desire for independence

A． ①②B． ③④

C. ①③　D． ②④

3. Think carefully (there are one or more options, please think carefully before choosing)

1. We often feel disgusted with our parents’ ideas, methods of discipline, and strict requirements, which is a rebellious mentality. The harm is ( )

A． Affects harmony among family members

B. It hurts both myself and my parents.

C. Not good for your physical and mental health

D. Allow yourself to better devote yourself to learning

2. What should we do when we have conflicts with our parents ( )

A． Calm down and discuss it with your parents calmly

B. Empathize with your parents

C. Ignore each other and stick to your point of view

D. Respect and understand each other

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