一张禁欲系冷淡脸，成为众男神忘不掉的前女友

很多时候，有一些人就像一个影子，活在你的脑海画面里，不忍心酸。就好像，画好了精致的妆容，刚准备要出门，却突然下起了大雨。又好像刚买到的新的口味的棒棒糖，刚舔了一口就掉在了地上。又好像那年夏天我在海边吃过的冰激凌，刚撕开包装就融化在了胸口上弄脏了新的裙子。有些人，就是从来都不会让你失望。

Many times, some people are like a shadow, living in your mind and not feeling sad. It’s like drawing a delicate makeup, just getting ready to go out, but suddenly it started to rain. It seems that the new taste of the lollipop that I just bought has just dropped a bit and fell to the ground. It was also like the ice cream that I had eaten at the beach that summer. I just melted the package and melted it on my chest to stain the new skirt. Some people just never let you down

我还记得很多年之前我住在一个公寓里，以前跟渣男吵架我都会把渣男赶出去然后渣男摔门滚出去以后我就会自己大哭有时候就会哭一整个下午的样子。然后有一次，隔壁的小姑娘，她听到了我哭然后敲门问我怎么样了。我说我还好。都很好。大概开门跟她聊了几句，她说她的那个男朋友跟她吵架就是经常因为他前女友的一个电话就消失了就离开她那样子，然后说她男朋友的前女友还打电话给他让他半夜十二点去帮忙修水龙头之类的事，他就会立刻去。又很巧合的是，当天下午，女孩子又哭又闹声音很大，男孩子好像还动手打她，只听到女孩子哭的很惨，哭着说你为什么总是这样，她都跟你分手了你还要去见她之类的。整个公寓一共是六户人家，整个走廊都能听到他们吵闹的样子，等我开门出来的时候，我看到整个走廊的情侣们都出来都站在她门口，我想去安慰她但是我没有。我不知道该怎么办，因为那时候我也是刚分手。我只是觉得，渣男就是渣男，离开没理由。

I still remember that I lived in an apartment. Before I quarreled with the scum, I would drive the scum male out and then the scum man would slam the door and then I would cry myself and sometimes I would cry for the whole afternoon. Then, once, the little girl next door, she heard me crying and knocked on the door to ask me how. I said that I am fine. all good. I probably opened the door and talked to her. She said that her boyfriend’s quarrel with her was often because her ex-girlfriend’s phone disappeared and left her. It’s coincidental that the girl cried again that afternoon. It’s very loud, the boy seems to be hitting her, only to hear the girl crying very badly, crying and saying why you always do this, she broke up with you, you have to go see her, the whole The apartment is a total of six households. The entire corridor can hear them noisy. When I open the door, I see the couples in the corridor coming out at her door. I want to comfort her but I don't. I don't know what to do, because I just broke up at that time. I just think that the scum man is a scum man, there is no reason to leave.

以前公司里也是总有那么几个小伙子，穿的体面，嘴巴又甜，总会哄女孩子，有时候会被人当成绅士，实际上眉目间一脸都是大写的花心渣男。之前滑板群里已经见识过多位了，表面暖男，实际上都是些只要是女孩子，就要去给女孩子暖一下的选手，大概都是些异地恋然后又身边留那么几位女闺蜜之类甚至可以直接说是骗炮的火包友。也不知道现在大家都是怎么对待爱情的，咱也不知道，咱也不敢问啊。

In the past, there were always a few young men in the company. They were decent and sweet, and they always licked girls. Sometimes they were treated as gentlemen. In fact, they all had a big-faced scum. Before the skateboarding group has seen a lot of people, the surface is warm, actually, as long as they are girls, they have to go to the girls to warm up the players, probably some distant love and then stay a few women A girlfriend or the like can even be said to be a fire-fighting friend of a scam. I don’t know how everyone treats love now, I don’t know, I don’t dare to ask.

还有一种渣男，也是有一颗心怀天下的心，想要给全世界女孩子幸福而已。就像是经常会把虽然我结婚了但是丝毫影响不了我们之间的关系这样的话挂在嘴边。然而实际上却忘记了那个给他生儿子的女人，又要帮他还房贷，还要一心一意伺候他一家，还在为他去操心。而他就不一样了，指不定内心惦记着哪个前女友。

There is also a kind of scum male, who also has a heart that embraces the world and wants to give happiness to girls all over the world. It’s like saying that although I am married but can’t influence the relationship between us, I’m talking about it. However, he actually forgot the woman who gave him a son, and he had to help him with his mortgage. He also had to serve his family with one heart and one mind, and he was still worried about him. And he is not the same, and may not remember which ex-girlfriend.

七夕情人节

Love

我忽然又想起了我以前的另一个同事，他以前在小的单位上班时候谈的对象，去见对方父母，女方总会嫌弃他，瞧不起他。后来他母亲托关系把他安排在事业单位上班，这下就厉害了，他跟我形容的说那女方爸妈态度立刻就不一样了，恨不得立刻让他女儿跟他上床一样，然后顺势结婚那种。不过他也很直白的说，那等货色老子还没兴趣根本不想上呢。后来也当然是分手结局。好像听说是后来换了四五个对象都分手了。

I suddenly remembered another colleague of mine. He used to talk to the other parents when he was working in a small unit. The woman always disliked him and looked down on him. Later, his mother asked him to arrange for him to work in a business unit. This is very powerful. He described to me that the attitude of the woman’s parents was immediately different. I wished that his daughter would immediately go to bed with him, and then he would marry him. Kind. However, he also said very straightforwardly that he was not interested in the goods and did not want to go on. Later, of course, it was a breakup. It seems that I heard that it was changed after four or five objects were changed.

之前也有人问我求助，问我应该怎么办。一个大男人，追了一个女生三个月不到，为了弄清楚女生心里有没有他，就拜托我给一个方案。我安排好了所有，去帮忙挑礼物，我精心准备一星期也帮忙查到了对方所有的大概喜好，还帮他搞了一场简约求爱的仪式，我想，女生都是在乎这些的。一段爱情的开始必须是从男生的一句：我喜欢你，你愿意做我女朋友吗？开始的，但是谁知道后来又出现一个插曲。男生跟我说，全程都按照我给出的计划和步骤然后成功约到了女神，结果女神睡了他，拿走了礼物。后来竟然就要分手。我后来跟那个人说，忘了她，换下一位。我能怎么办？我只是能给出一个大概的好的方法，但是这个具体事后我可就没办法去控制了。毕竟我又不是很了解你要的女神究竟是人是鬼。大家也可以想一下，倘若一个真正坦荡又负责任的男孩子，我说的是真正的单身青年，不是那种结婚了在外面装单身那种。如果是真正内心坦荡的人，想必一定也会遇到跟自己一个内心坦荡正经又正直的女孩子吧。就根本不会出现像微博上那些相亲被骗的沙雕故事了。

爱情本身是信任的基础，基础之上是彼此的真诚。也希望大家日后都能够遇到一个满眼都是你，真心愿意为你付出的人。希望这个七夕，有你也有他。

Someone asked me for help before and asked what should I do. A big man, chasing a girl for less than three months, in order to find out if there is a girl in his heart, please ask me for a plan. I arranged everything, to help pick the gift, I carefully prepared for a week, also helped to find out all the other people's preferences, and also helped him with a simple courtship ceremony, I think, girls are concerned about these. The beginning of a love must be from the boy's sentence: I like you, are you willing to be my girlfriend? At the beginning, but who knows that there is an episode later. The boy told me that the whole process was followed by the plan and steps I gave and then successfully reached the goddess. As a result, the goddess slept him and took the gift. Later, I was about to break up. I later told the person, forgot her, and replaced one. what can I do? I can only give you a good idea, but after this specific thing, I can't control it. After all, I don’t know very well whether the goddess you want is a ghost or a ghost. You can also think about it. If a truly honest and responsible boy, I am talking about a true single youth, not the kind of married outside. Single type. If you are truly open-minded, you must also meet a girl who is honest and upright with himself. There will be no sand sculpture stories like those on Weibo who have been deceived.

Love itself is the foundation of trust, based on the sincerity of each other. I also hope that everyone will be able to meet someone who is full of you and willing to pay for you in the future. I hope that this Tanabata, you have him too.